Finding a Sense of Wholeness

 

Key points

  • We all want to be happy, so why do we sometimes suddenly feel bad about feeling good?

  • To make it extra confusing, moving from happy to gloomy can happen in milliseconds.

  • The origin story of this dynamic shift generally resides in childhood.

This emotional dive from feeling good to feeling down is a two-step dance that can happen in milliseconds. It’s as though in one moment there’s a feeling of healthy pride. In the next moment, that pride is entangled in a death roll with dark thoughts or feelings of self-loathing, self-doubt, or of being fundamentally undeserving of good things.

Read the whole post on Psychology Today.

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